Your truth will lead you to the life you desire.

Truth is not easy to handle. Truth hurts. Most people would rather live their entire life inside a comforting lie than face one moment of truth.

But the reality is this:

the truth we need the most is often the one nobody can tell us, because no one was there when we were traumatised.

Our trauma had no witnesses.

So unless you meet an exceptional therapist or a truly wise mentor, you are doomed to live like someone with an undiagnosed disease the symptoms but without knowing why. And you will end up believing YOU are the problem.

Tatoo this on your heart: “it’s not my fault”.

The truth about who we are is like the dark side of the moon: you will never see it unless you’re willing to step into the darkness.

You struggle with sleep. You meet monsters in your nightmares. I know exactly how terrifying that is.

But it’s a sign, a message.

It means you need to face your truth, accept it, live with it, and give yourself a real chance to be happy, because you deserve it.

The truth about us always begins in childhood.

Were your parents good parents?

Or did they traumatise you?

How can you know?

It’s simple:

look at the fruits of the family tree.

Look at your life now.

How you feel around them.

How they treat you.

What you became despite them.

There are mistakes parents make that can be forgiven, especially if they acknowledge them.

But there are things you should never forgive, because forgiving them would mean betraying yourself, and the first rule of becoming powerful is:

never betray yourself.

So the truth you’re looking for is hidden in your childhood and in your family.

If everything had been fine, you wouldn’t be searching for answers.

You would already be living your best life, travelling the world, making money, fulfilling your potential.

Only people who are suffering,

people trapped in toxic relationships,

people who cannot make good decisions,

people who live in chronic emotional pain,

seek the truth.

Because pain is the symptom of a deeper wound.

Those who hurt others hide their pain in addictions, violence, or denial.

But you are here.

You’re looking for answers.

And that alone means you are already breaking the cycle.

Why trauma affects your success

If you can’t evolve, progress, or succeed

in your career, relationships, health, money, or social life

it’s because your subconscious is still operating from trauma.

Money issues especially are rooted in trauma.

Money represents power, safety, and self-care.

If you sabotage your finances, it’s because on a subconscious level you were programmed to believe:

“I am not worth anything.”

Facing the truth about your childhood is the first key to breaking this pattern.

Once you see your parents clearly for who they are,

you’ll finally be able to see everyone else clearly too, including the people hurting you today.

And you will cut them out of your life.

And then?

Once you heal,

you will attract people who can love you.

But most importantly,

you will finally love yourself.

And from that place… you will be able to create the life you deserve,

a life that is authentic, powerful, peaceful, and truly yours.

Avanti
Avanti

Don’t be ashamed about your situations.